{"id":23384,"date":"2020-06-19T19:47:46","date_gmt":"2020-06-20T00:47:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thefailureinstitute.com\/?p=23384"},"modified":"2020-08-27T11:42:53","modified_gmt":"2020-08-27T16:42:53","slug":"how-to-get-through-difficult-times","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thefailureinstitute.com\/es\/blog\/how-to-get-through-difficult-times\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfC\u00f3mo sobrellevar tiempos dif\u00edciles?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"23384\" class=\"elementor elementor-23384\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-210f5f22 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"210f5f22\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7ed777d6\" data-id=\"7ed777d6\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2a092a8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2a092a8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">16 hacks para pasar por tiempos dif\u00edciles<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-289dad03 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"289dad03\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #333333;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recientemente fui invitado a dar una presentaci\u00f3n a estudiantes de universidad y j\u00f3venes profesionales sobre c\u00f3mo ser resilientes durante tiempos de crisis. <\/span>Las reacciones y respuestas fueron tan positivas, que decid\u00ed compartir tambi\u00e9n con ustedes estos tips.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #333333;\">Hay una frase que a menudo se le atribuye a Winston Churchill:<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ce2610a elementor-section-stretched elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ce2610a\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;stretch_section&quot;:&quot;section-stretched&quot;,&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7e95b6f\" data-id=\"7e95b6f\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5c65c1d elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"5c65c1d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon elementor-animation-grow\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-quote-left\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5d2ba6f elementor-widget elementor-widget-testimonial\" data-id=\"5d2ba6f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"testimonial.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial-content\">El \u00e9xito no es definitivo, el fracaso no es fatal: es el coraje de continuar lo que cuenta.<\/div>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial-meta\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial-meta-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial-details\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial-name\">Winston Churchill<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d21b09a elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"d21b09a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon elementor-animation-grow\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-quote-right\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a68dc2e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a68dc2e\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-127f1dc\" data-id=\"127f1dc\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b1f87f1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b1f87f1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mucha gente se enfoca en la segunda afirmaci\u00f3n:<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cel fracaso no es fatal\u201d. Pero en estos momentos, me interesa m\u00e1s la primera: \u201cel \u00e9xito no es definitivo\u201d. El cambio es la \u00fanica cosa certera que tenemos. Nunca sabremos cuando un terremoto, una pandemia, una dictadura, accidente, mala suerte o malas noticias nos van a golpear. Entonces, \u00bfc\u00f3mo podemos hacer estos tiempos dif\u00edciles m\u00e1s manejables?<\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #333333;\">No soy un experto, pero me considero a m\u00ed mismo una persona feliz que ha podido permanecer centrado (m\u00e1s o menos) durante varias crisis familiares, financieras y profesionales que he pasado durante los \u00faltimos a\u00f1os. A continuaci\u00f3n, algunos tips y modelos mentales que utilizo para mantenerme a flote. <\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8aea4df elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8aea4df\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-66 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3d50da9\" data-id=\"3d50da9\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4e10dff elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4e10dff\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2><span style=\"color: #333333;\">Cambia el paradigma<\/span><\/h2><p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Internaliza la idea de que <\/span><b>el fracaso no es una identidad, s\u00f3lo una situaci\u00f3n temporal.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fallar en algo no significa que seas un fracasado o un perdedor, simplemente significa que atravesaste por un fracaso. Tambi\u00e9n es importante reconocer que todos experimentaremos el fracaso, o al menos no estaremos a la altura de algunas expectativas (propias o de otras personas) en alg\u00fan punto de nuestras vidas. La sociedad tiende a celebrar los extremos: el m\u00e1s rico, el m\u00e1s hermoso, etc; por lo tanto es f\u00e1cil creer que a todo el mundo le va muy bien. Pero es muy probable que incluso las personas que lucen s\u00faper exitosas, sean miserables detr\u00e1s del escenario. No aspiremos a vivir una versi\u00f3n con filtros de nuestras vidas.<\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Entender que <\/span><b>la vida de nadie es perfecta<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> resulta tranquilizador, y nos da una buena dosis de realidad y perspectiva.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hay gente con la que al platicar nos dan energ\u00eda, y hay otras que nos la drenan. En estos tiempos de dificultad, <\/span><b>rod\u00e9ate de personas que te dan energ\u00eda.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esos amigos que ven todas las posibilidades en un vaso medio lleno te ayudar\u00e1n a atravesar muchas situaciones de maneras creativas.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-33 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a17f27a\" data-id=\"a17f27a\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-258ed9c elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"258ed9c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4d6b6a5 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4d6b6a5\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-64a491d\" data-id=\"64a491d\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5419fef elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5419fef\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2><span style=\"color: #333333;\">Obt\u00e9n perspectiva<\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3595bc0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3595bc0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Invertir tiempo y energ\u00eda en cosas que no puedes controlar (pol\u00edticos, el clima, las decisiones de otros, etc.) s\u00f3lo te generar\u00e1 frustraci\u00f3n y enojo. En vez de eso, <\/span><b>enf\u00f3cate en lo que puedes controlar,<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">por ejemplo: c\u00f3mo reaccionas, c\u00f3mo tratas a otros, o las actividades que decides hacer al respecto.<\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><b>Descon\u00e9ctate.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">P\u00f3nte en modo offline. Prot\u00e9gete de esas transmisiones negativas, comparaciones, clickbaits y noticias falsas en la TV y el internet. No estamos dise\u00f1ados para aguantar esa abrumadora cantidad de mierda. Yo intento desconectarme al menos durante mis comidas, meditaci\u00f3n, ejercicio y una hora antes de dormir. He descubierto que entre menos tiempo paso frente a una pantalla (especialmente redes sociales), soy m\u00e1s feliz, creativo y productivo. Tambi\u00e9n tomo mejores decisiones y termino invirtiendo mi tiempo en cosas que me importan realmente.<\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuando est\u00e9s conectado, trata de <\/span><b>consumir<\/b> <b>sabidur\u00eda y conocimiento, no informaci\u00f3n.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Muchos crecimos en sociedades donde se celebra el estar informado. Y con \u201cestar informado\u201d, se refieren a leer el peri\u00f3dico y ver las noticias. El problema es que, entre tantos intentos desesperados de obtener nuestra atenci\u00f3n, muchos medios se han convertido en ruido.<\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recientemente, he hecho un gran esfuerzo por estar consciente cuando empiezo a scrollear sin sentido en redes sociales. Eso es un indicador para <\/span><b>dejar de lado el tel\u00e9fono y agarrar un libro.<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"color: #333333;\">Para m\u00ed, disminuir y cambiar mi consumo de redes sociales y noticias por libros, me ha permitido pensar con claridad, y eso es una forma m\u00e1s productiva para hacerlo a largo plazo. \u00bfElegir aprender de experiencias de mentes inteligentes en un par de horas? S\u00ed, por favor.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-47d2dad elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"47d2dad\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-33 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a1ae677\" data-id=\"a1ae677\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-66 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-92ee62e\" data-id=\"92ee62e\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7f77e0b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7f77e0b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><b>Con\u00f3cete<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tal vez te sorprenda descubrir qu\u00e9 tan cool eres. Una de las cosas que me ha ayudado m\u00e1s a esto es la psicolog\u00eda positiva. Soy un fan sin remedio de esos libros de \u201cpsicolog\u00eda popular\u201d, esos con nombres de una sola palabra, portadas minimalistas y autores de la Ivy League que usan siempre la misma f\u00f3rmula y hacen referencia a las mismas investigaciones. Pero, honestamente, la psicolog\u00eda positiva me ha ayudado a construir h\u00e1bitos y a cambiar la forma en la que reacciono a situaciones dif\u00edciles.\nAdem\u00e1s, sumergirme un poco en esta \u201cpsicolog\u00eda popular\u201d me ayud\u00f3 eventualmente moverme a otros lados como la autoconciencia, Budismo y cosas m\u00e1s profundas\u2026 lo cual es a\u00fan mejor.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Otro truco que he desarrollado para obtener perspectiva es <\/span><b>pensar en mis padres.<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"color: #333333;\">\u00daltimamente he estado hablando con gente incre\u00edble de pa\u00edses que han estado del lado afectado en los \u00faltimos 500 a\u00f1os, es decir, los colonizados  y no los colonizadores. Teniendo estas conversaciones, se ha vuelto m\u00e1s claro que una cosa que tenemos en com\u00fan es que nuestros padres han pasado por cosas realmente duras: dictaduras, pobreza, guerra, hiper inflaciones y devaluaciones, intervencionismo, segregaci\u00f3n, etc. Cuando pienso en esto, recuerdo mis privilegios y obtengo esa energ\u00eda para seguir ayudando a los dem\u00e1s e intentar cambiar el sistema, dejar un mejor mundo para futuras generaciones.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2aec9fb6 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2aec9fb6\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-54821616\" data-id=\"54821616\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d62bf7e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d62bf7e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2><span style=\"color: #333333;\">Aclara tu mente<\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-198e777 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"198e777\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><b>No tomes decisiones cuando est\u00e1s triste (o hambriento).<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Creo que este punto no requiere tantas explicaciones. Acompa\u00f1a con un snack y consulta con la almohada alguna decisi\u00f3n importante.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><b>Ejerc\u00edtate.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Act\u00edvate. La humanidad no evolucion\u00f3 para estar sentada en un sof\u00e1 y ordenar a domicilio. Para que nuestros cuerpos y cerebros (y emociones) fluyan, necesitamos movernos. Si no obtenemos energ\u00eda f\u00edsica, nuestras energ\u00edas intelectuales, creativas y espirituales caer\u00e1n tambi\u00e9n. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><b>Crea un alter ego.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Sometimes, and particularly in times of crisis, we have to do things that we don\u2019t want to do or that we think we\u2019re not good at. Maybe Pepe Villatoro is struggling to have <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/thefailureinstitute.com\/es\/the-risky-art-of-having-difficult-conversations\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">t<\/a><\/strong><\/span><b><a href=\"https:\/\/thefailureinstitute.com\/es\/the-risky-art-of-having-difficult-conversations\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Esa conversaci\u00f3n dif\u00edcil<\/a> <\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"color: #333333;\">con su equipo, pero tal vez Batman Villatoro si puede\u2026 (lo siento, no hab\u00eda nombrado a mi alter ego a\u00fan, pero imag\u00ednense una mezcla entre Maya Angelou y Ironman). Entiendo que este punto puede sonar un poco superficial cuando la est\u00e1s pasando mal y las  cosas no est\u00e1n bien, pero a veces puede ser muy poderoso acercarse a un problema como un reto o un juego.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-17b63ef elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"17b63ef\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-66 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-cd4389c\" data-id=\"cd4389c\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9b51b85 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9b51b85\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2><span style=\"color: #333333;\">Piensa a largo plazo<\/span><\/h2><p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuando estoy molesto o triste por que las cosas no van bien, me pregunto: <\/span><b>\u00bfQu\u00e9 opinar\u00e9 al respecto dentro de 10 a\u00f1os? <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La respuesta es t\u00edpicamente una de estas dos: Seguramente me sacar\u00e1 algunas risas o ser\u00e1 una buena historia. Esto me ayuda a liberarme de esos pensamientos negativos y empezar a pensar de una forma m\u00e1s estoica, alineada a mis principios.<\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><b>Act\u00faa como si tus decisiones fueran a aparecer en los peri\u00f3dicos ma\u00f1ana.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esta perspectiva te ayudar\u00e1 a pensar dos veces y respirar hondo antes de actuar bajo pensamientos que no reflejan qui\u00e9n eres realmente.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><b>Enf\u00f3cate en tu prop\u00f3sito y valores, dise\u00f1a tu vida.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00e9 que esto suena un poco blando, pero es lo m\u00e1s importante que he hecho dentro de mis esfuerzos por vivir una vida m\u00e1s satisfactoria. Es sencillo s\u00f3lo dejarte llevar por la corriente y hacer lo que la sociedad y sus maquinarias de marketing te dictan; consumir y acumular.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-33 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2d7355e\" data-id=\"2d7355e\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5cf3072 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"5cf3072\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"342\" height=\"523\" src=\"https:\/\/thefailureinstitute.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Captura-de-Pantalla-2020-06-19-a-las-19.43.11.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-23394\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thefailureinstitute.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Captura-de-Pantalla-2020-06-19-a-las-19.43.11.png 342w, https:\/\/thefailureinstitute.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Captura-de-Pantalla-2020-06-19-a-las-19.43.11-196x300.png 196w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 342px) 100vw, 342px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1e2d128 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1e2d128\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-caa5acb\" data-id=\"caa5acb\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bbe470c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"bbe470c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #333333;\">Pero \u00bfY si todo ese sinsentido capitalista es algo que t\u00fa realmente no valoras? \u00bfC\u00f3mo quieres que tu vida luzca realmente? Hasta que empecemos a resolver estas preguntas, seguir\u00e1s corriendo en c\u00edrculos como gallina sin cabeza, viviendo una vida que alguien m\u00e1s dise\u00f1\u00f3 para ti.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #333333;\">En resumen, si te sientes mal o est\u00e1s pasando por un tiempo dif\u00edcil, alguna idea de esta lista te podr\u00eda ayudar:<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-13e2bf9 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"13e2bf9\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8f6fd4b\" data-id=\"8f6fd4b\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-d393489\" data-id=\"d393489\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pepe Villatoro, Co-Founder and CEO of Fuckup Inc, shared an insightful 16 step-guide to clear our minds, and get a new perspective when going through difficult times for the failure institute.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":23387,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[214,191],"tags":[187,190],"class_list":["post-23384","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-mindset-behaviour","tag-be-one-percent-better","tag-tips"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v25.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>How to get through difficult times? 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